It was a warm night in August of 2009. Mosquitoes where out, and I was all dressed up for a night of basketball at the courts. It was dark outside, but the court lights where shinning so we could play basketball. My friends where messing around and playing tennis (more like hitting the tennis balls at each other) so I decided to go shoot around. I was shooting at the furthest hoop all by myself when this guy, in a bright yellow shirt, walks up and said, "Hey, do you know who I am?" I had seen him around town before, and knew from friends that his name was Matt. So I replied, "Well, is your name Matt?" He said yes then asked if he could shoot around with me. We were shooting around, making small talk, when he offered to play horse. Of course I took him up on his offer, I am too competitive to say no. We played and I won! It was awesome! We continued making small talk, then before we knew it was time for the lights to shut off. I was bummed to say the least.
The next day I decided I needed to find a way to get his number and talk to him. I texted a few friends and finally tracked down his number. I sent him a message telling him that I had fun playing basketball with him so we made plans to do it again. Matt was, and still is, a very open person. He told me his whole life story, and before I knew it, we were spending every day together. It happened so quickly, but it is not too often you find someone you can spend all this time with without getting sick of them.
I quickly figured out who Matt is and what kind of a person he is. Matt is a hard worker, goal orientated, and driven to make the best out of his life. He has had his heart broken more than once, but learned from his mistakes. Matt is caring, loves his nieces and shows his loves to them, and wants to be able to provide for his family. He has high expectations for himself, and stresses easily. It is funny watching him stress out about stuff. He makes sure to get his work done before he plays, and is very good with his money. He saves his money like no ones business, and in doing so he has nice things and can live comfortably at 23 years old. I came to find out that he his hyper, and doesn't care what people think of him. He doesn't drink or do drugs, but he loves to play the slots, and take random drives for hours not knowing where we will end up.
For a 23 year old, he has done a lot of good in his life. He has made a lot of adult like decisions and for that he has lived and learned. Matt is a strong man, but sometimes need someone to comfort him, hold him, and love him. For the man Matt has been and still is, this is why I have been around him for three years now. His personality is addicting, and when I am not around him, I feel like I am missing something and I don't know what I am missing until I see him again. He is full of surprises and does of the craziest things. For example: waking me up at 4:30 in the morning to go stand in line for a free ham. Just spur of the moment and very spontaneous.
He is a great man, with goals, a job, money, a car, and very stable. These are qualities you can't find in a lot of guys theses days.